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Post by lizifer on Dec 14, 2002 16:43:45 GMT -5
u guys certainly seem to have some wierd dreams!
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Post by Mandragora on Dec 14, 2002 16:51:43 GMT -5
EEEKKK... Christian Coulson is my PALLBEARER! Yikes  Gee... I always have weird dreams. This is probably the second time I saw myself dead. In dream dictionaries 'death' always means 'a new beginning', and I quite believe that. But what Christian Coulson has anything to do with mine, I have no idea. I mean, so I'm a fan, but what does he really have to do with my real world, right? |
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Post by Angelamyte on Dec 14, 2002 20:19:20 GMT -5
what if CC is going to be apart of u'r new beginning?? ie. u'r gonna marry him?? ok, that's a little farfetched, but u never know  |
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Post by Mandragora on Dec 15, 2002 20:09:46 GMT -5
RIGHT, hahahahaha. So CC will just happen to drop by here, read my posts and fall in-love with ME. HAHAHAHA. That IS farfetched, but then, if I have this much chance marrying Christian, that will be as much chance as everyone. Besides, I don't want to marry CC because I am NOT even in-love with him. ;D I find him utterly attractive and talented, but then he's way too much a mystery to me. I am not in-love anyone at the moment, too, and I feel a lot better right now (as opposed to when I was crazy with some undeserving creep). You see, when I ever fall in-love, I want to really know who I am in-love with. In Christian's case, it's just Tom Riddle and the Christian based on that short webchat and that interview and those possibilites of him (like DOES he REALLY read Donna Tartt or is that just a fabricated answer?) I love Christian, "but it's not enough" <=== *if he read DT he's familiar with that line* Hehe, I got quite bit sentimental up there. It was just a dream, nothing more, unless in the near future it gets proven otherwise  |
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Post by Sampaguita on Dec 15, 2002 20:24:34 GMT -5
Well, depending on how recent your breakup with Mr. Undeserving Creep was, maybe that's what your dream was about. Maybe you just needed pallbearers in your dream and since you've been thinking a lot about Christian, your brain just inserted him.
OR It could mean that Christian was in a role that made you think about and reassess your life. Did his performance as Riddle bring up any memories?
At least your dream could be deciphered. I have no idea why he was the officiating minister at my dream wedding to a golden boy that I'm not in love with (though, I do find him attractive and a nice new friend that gives my life a positive change of pace). Your dream dictionary wouldn't happen to mention anything about weddings or the symbolism of clergy, would it?
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Post by Mandragora on Dec 15, 2002 20:35:34 GMT -5
Check this out from sleeps.com: "Weddings -To dream of a wedding is a sign of a death and a funeral. There are various other meanings, but this one has always been the cardinal rule for weddings as they symbolize new beginnings, but only at the cost of the death of the former 'life'. This death could mean various types of endings, not necessarily that of the body." Oops, that is not so good, eh  Well, Mr Undeserving Creep was never my boyfriend thankGod, and that was SO long ago. I think the that dream has a lot to do with my life right now re new beginning, etc., and Christian just happen to be here and there Aw come on, let's not think too much of these dreams ;D Que sera sera! |
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MrsRiddle
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he's so cute!
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Post by MrsRiddle on Dec 16, 2002 4:16:46 GMT -5
you know what i really get fed up with, is all the brats that come into the HP chat room on yahoo and just keep saying how much their in love with Emma Watson, Daniel Radcliffe, Tom Felton, Sean Biggerstaff and all the rest. how can you be in love with someone you dont even know? its impossible. True Love only develops after you've gotten to know someone truely!
have any of you seen the brats? what you said Mandragora was very, well, mature. most people just say "oh i love him SOOOO much". but you were honest. ;D
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Post by Mandragora on Dec 16, 2002 17:08:27 GMT -5
Mrs Riddle---- maturity comes with age LOL Not that I am too old, mind you (and if I am not mistaken MsPoet is older than me, and yes, CC is older than me, at least), but I went through that stage also. You guys should have seen me when I was SO mad about Edward Furlong from Terminator 2. That was SO PATHETIC AND EMBARASSING. And by the way, young women my age don't usually go ga-ga over something like this, ie Christian Coulson and others (none that I know of) They go for the 'real men' living in their 'real lives', existing in their 'real world'. What is so bad about that is they also get 'real headaches and heartbreaks', and tend to have a higher probability of higher self-destruction. In the meantime I am quite content with a 'lesser real'. I have been busy for a long time now with all the stuff I do, and CC is the only one who created this sort of fairytale-like distraction. So yes, I have my head in the clouds, I don't exactly live in the 'real world' (though I work for one), though I am awar with all that. Quite a Catch-22, if you ask me |
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Post by MsPoet on Dec 16, 2002 17:08:33 GMT -5
Hmm.... It is possible, however, to love someone at first sight. I've loved people immediately off the bat, or virtually. I substituted 2 years ago for a fourth grade class and I LOVED them, genuinely, in one day. They were truly an extraordinary group of people. Hey I was just perusing some forum and a poster put up the following quote of her sister's: "There's only one thing worse than having a crush on a fictional character: having a crush on a married, dead fictional character." Donna |
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he's so cute!
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Post by MrsRiddle on Dec 17, 2002 6:22:23 GMT -5
yeah believe it is possible to love someone at first sight. take for example the situation i'm in now in the "real world"! a year ago i was in Gosport ice show and there was a guy in it called Chris who i hadnt spoken to and only knew what my friends had told me about him. as soon as i saw him i KNEW he was someone special. but however, me being me with NO self confidence thought he was way out of my league! but 5 months later we were going out with each other but i still wondered why the hell he wanted to go out with a scrub like me! so we decided to just stay friends. NOW - we have become the best of friends and i am now in love with him. the feelings i have for him now i never felt when we were going out, but they are close to what i felt for him when i first saw him (only stronger). however, i can't tell him how i feel because i do not want to ruin the friendship we have now.   |
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Post by Mandragora on Dec 17, 2002 17:34:51 GMT -5
Friendship and love... yes that is quite a strange situation. One of my favorite movie lines is in the movies "How to MAke an American Quilt" the one with Winona Ryder. Anyway, it goes: *Finn (Winona): If you were to choose between marrying a lover or marying a friend, who would you choose? Alfre Woodward: I would choose to marry my soulmate.* The line is quite romantic, but I am starting to doubt the existence of such thing as "soulmates". I mean, I have experienced that the-first-time-I-saw-you nutse and it was just nothing. I had thought at least two guys who were supposed to be my soulmate, but in the end thankGod they're NOT. Ideally, for me, I would love to end up with a friend, but then whoever this person is, it's the kind that would not make me afraid of losing such thing as friendship, you know. I am thinking that if I get to the state of being insanely in-love with someone, that would be the sanest thing in the world, but it's not always the question of WHAT/WHICH feelings, but more on WHO for. So I guess, for your situation, Mrs Riddle, maybe it's all in the waiting. You know, just like how writers would write it, the time comes and then you just look at each other, and then you just KNOW. And then they live happily ever after, have five kids, retires to the Carribean after receiving a huge pension, and then the last fight would be whether to get buried, cremated or operated for organ donation. *sigh* Such the possibilites of life |
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Post by MsPoet on Dec 17, 2002 18:06:58 GMT -5
Mrs Riddle, I was 'friends' with someone years ago in college...I didn't want to say how I felt...because I didn't want to lose him as a friend and I wanted HIM to make the move..... and now he is elsewhere, and probably with someone else. Donna, who looks at the pictures of the guy in her avatar every freakin' day and is reminded of that young man |
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Post by Angelamyte on Dec 17, 2002 22:13:55 GMT -5
wow, this is like Oprah, everyone's in this great big internet heart to heart... ;D poor Donna, is he the same one who was "The One?" why don't you make the move, NOW. find out where he is, what's he doing, and by chance visit his town and "bump" into him. You never know, he could be harbouring the same feelings as you, and wondering about you... Then you guys can talk about "Back Then" and magically you guys will "fall in love" and you'll have your very own "guy in avatar"... i love happy endings |
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Post by MsPoet on Dec 18, 2002 1:37:52 GMT -5
Angela,
I found his address a couple of years ago and sent a letter....nothing lovey-dovey,...just saying what I was doing (teaching), wondering how he was doing, if he were ok, etc etc....and I never got a reply. I have a hunch that he was/is in a relationship.
There are others out there I love/can love just as much, tho.
Donna
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Post by Sampaguita on Dec 18, 2002 2:48:21 GMT -5
That sounds deceptively like something that I've sorta got going with someone. But don't you find it hard to block him out of your mind... I find my thoughts drifting back to mine at least once a week... I think that's part of the reason the idea of CC intrigues me-- his manner is a lot like his... and then there's that darkness thing he's got going (Sarah McLachlan's "Building a Mystery" fits him very well, actually.) Enough about me...
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Christian, do you like our future?
