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Post by lizifer on Feb 24, 2003 9:29:25 GMT -5
i generally follow my instincts..... and about the "too much of a catch" thing, i agree, i never like the guys who are interested in me, i'm too good for them  |
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Post by Mandragora on Feb 24, 2003 14:38:10 GMT -5
OKAY... how do you get 'back' together with this person in the past whom you had a misunderstanding with, and well, you want to give it another try? OKAY, so I want to get 'back' to this guy whom I had this stupid misunderstanding with about two years ago, and I have been such a major b**ch to him for the last several months, and I think that, well, we still have this possibility because right now, and it was HIS move. I do not want to wait for Prince Charmings anymore ie Christian Coulson-like princes (is there such thing/person?), and I wouldn't call THIS 'settling' because , of all the men I have met so far, THIS ONE is the ALMOST one, and I really want to give it a try... though my feelings for him are not the same anymore because I have ceased to be this totally neurotic-paranoid git (I hope), and since that I am more calm now, and that my hormones are not as imbalanced as it usually are in your late teens/early twenties.... the point is, maybe I am ready. But, uh, I am really BAD with men when it comes to things like these... I mean, I can kick *sses with them, but I don't think I can look at this man in the eye and say, "Congratulations, I am sorry, I know we had something going on in the past which we both completely screwed, but I think I do not want to spend the rest of my life wondering about you as a prime elemnt of the 'what if' category of my emotional file of frustrations." So, any suggestions? I don't know, I just feel this outburst right now because we're supposed to meet today, but I won't be able to make it, and I haven't seen him since December, and I have been conjuring confrontational stuff in my head for ages, and all of a sudden I am in this situation where it feels like it is time to make this into a reality. OHMIGOOD... is this a portent? EEK!  |
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Post by ophelia on Mar 2, 2003 1:15:50 GMT -5
portent? that would be something. first of all, no matter what kind of a girl you are with all the balls in the world, that doesn't make a certain guy right for you if he's such a worthless mate. outburst? go ahead, confront him, but is he worth it? is he? don't you think that once is enough?
if i were you, i'd let him be the one to go through all the s*it. he should be drowning in regret.
yep, man-hater just logged on
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